obstacles of life

Sometimes life’s obstacles make us feel worse and weaker, because they are not easyily handled in a normal way.There are two types of people who overcome the obstacles

People who struggle to overcome problems without any help from others are almost always so tired. It is because they spend too much energy in order to handle the problems themselves. This way of solving problems is advantageous that it is very independent. However, these kind of people might fail to solve the problems more often than others do, because each person has limited ideas and plans than many people put together. People should communicate with others to get valuable information and experience from others. Therefore, this way of handling the problems is very inadvisable.

People who cooperate well with others, on the other hand, will probably have better results. It is because they share experience and information with each other. This is a great help when we cope with problems. In addition, other people can advise them about a way of being more familiar with the problems. This would be beneficial when it comes to managing the situation. A slight disadvantage of this way is that people might be dependent on others' decisions, but it is not a big problem. For these reasons, this way of handling problem is better than the first one.

The reason why I wrote this is I have a big obstacle nowadays...
I don't know how I can handle it... -_-